That's right Edith Ann, you don't! To you and others feeling as you do, remember, a NO to a perceived obligation is a YES to you. Go on. Find and climb into your big rocking chair. A favorite chair will do if you don't have a rocker. Together, on the count of three, in your best Edith Ann voice, loudly proclaim, “I Don't Want To, I Don't Have To! And That's the Truth!” Today, with my yes, I choose to take ten, curl up in a blanket in front of a sunny window and snooze. What is your YES to you?